Your child’s world is changing.
We help you stay in it.
A custody case is never really about a calendar — it’s about your place in your child’s life. Our North Carolina family-law team helps parents navigate their child custody journey with confidence.
“I will never recommend anyone else as this firm could not have done a better job. If you were looking to find representation please do yourself and family a favor call Kurtz & Blum.”
“The knowledge, kindness, and professionalism that the attorneys and their office staff have consistently displayed are unprecedented in the field.”
You’re not fighting over time. You’re protecting a relationship.
Maybe you’re afraid of becoming a weekend parent. Maybe the other side is rewriting history. Maybe you just want your kids to feel safe and steady through all of it. Whatever brought you here, you don’t have to figure it out alone.
We’ve guided hundreds of North Carolina parents through exactly this moment — and we lead with listening before we ever talk strategy.
NC courts decide on the child’s best interests — here’s what that means.
Stability & routine
Who provides a consistent home, school, and daily structure for the child.
Each parent’s involvement
History of caregiving — meals, bedtimes, doctor visits, school pickups.
Co-parenting willingness
Whether each parent supports the child’s relationship with the other.
Safety & well-being
Any history that bears on the child’s physical and emotional safety.
We help you document the things that matter — and present them clearly when it counts.
We help you win so you get to stay close.
Custody outcomes shape birthdays, bedtimes, and the thousand ordinary moments that make you a parent. We approach every case with that weight in mind — pursuing arrangements that keep you present in your child’s everyday life, not just on paper.
When cooperation is possible, we protect it. When it isn’t, we’re prepared to advocate firmly in court — always anchored to what keeps your child secure.
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Most parents have never done this before. Here’s how it typically unfolds when you work with us.
Listen & assess
A confidential consultation to understand your family, your fears, and your goals — and to map your realistic options.
Build the case
We gather what matters — your parenting history, documentation, and a proposed plan rooted in your child’s routine.
Negotiate or mediate
Many custody matters settle. We pursue a parenting agreement that protects your time without unnecessary conflict.
Advocate in court
If a fair resolution isn’t possible, we’re trial-ready — presenting your case clearly to the judge.
Steady hands for difficult situations.
Custody rarely arrives on its own. Whatever your circumstances, we meet you where you are — without judgment.
Establishing custody
First-time custody orders for unmarried or newly separated parents — building structure where there’s none yet.
Modifying an order
When life changes — a move, a new job, a parent falling short — we petition to modify custody or support.
Enforcing your rights
When the other parent ignores the order or withholds your time, we move quickly to enforce it.
High-conflict & safety
For cases involving safety concerns or relocation, we advocate firmly while keeping your child’s welfare central.
A custody case is one of the most personal things a person goes through. Our job is to carry the legal weight, so you can stay focused on being there for your kids.”
Real outcomes, in their own words.
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“Thanks to their help, my case was handled efficiently and with a good outcome. I’m very grateful to Matt and the Kurtz & Blum team”
“From our first consultation, they were incredibly attentive and took the time to explain every step.”
“Mr Hammett did a wonderful job getting us the results we wanted, we are truly appreciative of him and his work!”
“Patient, understanding, professional, and willing to go the extra mile.”
Plain answers, before you commit.
Can’t find an answer to your question? Contact our custody team today for fast, professional support.
Does North Carolina favor mothers in custody cases?
+No. NC law does not presume either parent is the better custodian. Courts decide custody on the “best interests of the child,” weighing stability, caregiving history, and each parent’s ability to meet the child’s needs.
What’s the difference between legal and physical custody?
+Legal custody is the right to make major decisions (school, healthcare, religion). Physical custody is where the child lives day to day. Either can be sole or joint, and they’re decided separately.
Can a custody order be changed later?
+Yes. If there’s been a substantial change in circumstances affecting the child, either parent can petition to modify custody. We handle modifications and enforcement regularly.
Do we have to go to court?
+Often, no. Many custody matters resolve through a negotiated parenting agreement or mediation. We pursue those paths first — but prepare every case as if it may go to trial.
How much does a custody attorney cost?
+We discuss fees transparently at your first consultation. The fee for the first consultation is $375 for up to an hour. Contact us today to learn more.
“Well-versed in the law, very thorough in preparation and know their way around the courthouse.”
Let’s protect your time together.
Tell us a little about your situation and a member of our custody team will contact you within one business day to arrange a consultation.